Living a lie: MSMs use women to cover up their sexuality

Published: April 26, 2010

Living a lie: MSMs use women to cover up their sexuality

He is a 42-year-old bisexual man. He lives at home with his wife, the mother of his two children. She does not know he is also having sex with men.

During his 14-year-old relationship with his wife, he has had two different ‘steady’ relationships with males that lasted three and five years respectively. In the latter case, he went to his partner’s house. In the other they would have to find other places … car, brothel, and gay friends’ houses.

He has never used condoms with his wife — that is the way they have negotiated their relationship over the years.

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