Do you find it difficult to approach men you fancy? If so, you’re not alone. For lots of gay men,
making the first move is scary – whether it’s in a bar, club, sauna or a public place. Sometimes men end up having sex with guys they don’t really fancy – or having sex which isn’t as safe as they’d like. If you sometimes find it difficult to pick up men, or you end up having sex you don’t want, then this booklet is for you. We’ve included lots of tips on how to boost your confidence and develop your cruising skills. Staying safe and in control is important, so you’ll find plenty of advice on talking about safer sex,
asking for the sex you want, and saying no to the sex you don’t want. We’ve also included
some comments from other guys about their experiences of cruising, some of which might
be similar to yours.
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